I can so feel your pain. My sitch a little different but my X, yes now X, acted the same way. He wanted nothing to do with me. Made his decision and that was that. When I finally had to get an attorney she told me after 22 years of experience be prepared that he is seeing someone else. SHOCKED! I didn't believe her although all the signs were there. In the end he was seeing someone from work...and still is. I am trying and doing all the GAL, PMA, 180, etc. Time and patience are my only friend right now. I HAVE to focus on living my life without him. I wish I had more info from people on this site but no one is quite ready to respond to me. I will be watching your post. I wish you all the best. My X didn't even want a separation just a straight get you out of my life divorce. Sad part is I still like you am in love with him and my heart just breaks every time I see him.


M: 49 H: 49
S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago)
M: 21yrs
BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months)
D: 3/11/11
Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery
X: engaged w/OW