Thanks, longrun. W and I have discussed this in the past, including with our financial advisor, and we've agreed (at that time at least) that we wanted to split time with the kids 50/50. She also knows that she'll probably have to pay me some type of support since we decided that she would focus more on career and I would do more on the childrearinf side, although I do okay with my translation work. Her career has advanced more quickly because of the time she's had to focus on work while I had to make more...adjustments...to my work schedule. Barring that though, I think we see eye to eye on just about everything else.
And now for the requisite DBers lament: I just wish it hadn't come to this point and I hope she has at least a partial change of heart before D-day. Blah-blah-blah. Bring it on. I'm ready to embrace the future, come what may.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13