NLW, this is definitely interesting development. Who knows what’s going on in his head. But, I would not put too much thought into this though. He might have changed his behavior towards you because you gave him what he wanted, the official D, and there nothing to fight against anymore.

I totally understand how you feel about D. My sitch is moving towards D full speed, I think. I think I’m starting to accept it, but there are moments when it all seems so unreal… still… after 10 months of separation… I just cannot believe that H would wants to divorce me.

The good thing is you don’t have to deal with his bad behavior any more. I agree with BF that you probably need to enforce the boundaries.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state