Wow, men who like to cook, not gonna lie, that's a turn on for women. Just sayin..... LOL!
J, who cares what your wife thinks of your changes right now? Not you, cuz you are living your life, right?
But, I will answer your question a little. In the future, if she has done the work and looks towards you, you want her to see someone different. Someone she doesnt have to worry about. Someone strong and capable. Because she is not going to want to come back to more of the same, ya know?
