Hey FY, thanks for saying you value my insight. Means a lot.
Only you know when you've had enough. Your issue is a very big issue, in my mind.
As far as other women, I dont think you are anywhere near ready to be thinking about that. As far as them having issues, well, so does your wife - you are just more familiar with hers. .
The thing of it is, if it comes to that, I can understand you being open for reconnection, absoloutely. Keeping the door slightly cracked is healthy, but, I'd hate to see you hainging on forever waiting and not moving forward with your life.
And one day that might very well include wanting to meet someone.
But as I said, you will know when you are ready.
Life should be savored, FY. And I for one hope that if my future includes a relationship, I will relish every part of it.