Actually you know JP, I was in the dark hole and now I feel like I'm finally crawling out of it. See My guts told me for weeks actually for months about this but I ignored it. This time is different, when it's affecting my kids that's when I step in. Most will probably disagree but when I confronted the OM, I felt that I regained some of my confidence back.
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.