it's not wimpy to NOT reactionary...it's a strength that comes from calm reflection.
Being reflective BEFORE we act or speak, means knowing our words and actions are Intentional, coming from a place of more certainty...
which greatly lowers the risk of escalation.
Because we are clearer, and calmer, we come across much more effectively and our boundaries are clearer, which helps everyone out in the long run.
best of luck ladies!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
