Almost two years and still stuck in limbo

[newman7977]

"You and OM's W have applied pressure and it just caused your W to want to contact him more. Do you happen to know which one initiated the contact? "

Not sure. It's actually been happening for weeks that's why I contacted OM w so maybe she can make it hard for him to call my W...I've notice these little stops she make before coming home for weeks now except last week. And last night I confirmed that those stops were communications with OM. That's why I think they tried to stop but back again this week or maybe like u said possible OM was out for the week.

I just had it, yesterday was 30 mins where she could've been home with the kids...only d18 watching her bros and she's got a lot of homework, s14 was hungry, s3 was watching tv by himself. Shoot that made me boil and I had to confront her. I hate to say this but my kids comes before DB if that move was not very DBing of me.

Thanks for your input...yes I'm standing firm because I really do want out if she continue this. She ask why we can't just do in house separation and i told her no, because I don't wanna know who she talks to, I don't wanna know who she sleeps with, I don't wanna know who she disrespect because of her selfish ways. I told her file for D and she's free to do all that when she doesn't have the kids...I don't want that OM near my kids. She can do anything when the kids are with me.

She said she will stop for her. But I'm not holding on to that. She wants me, I'm here she has to show me shes willing and I will work with her on rebuilding our M.