well here is the one thing that i get hung up on.

The reason she left. She never ever told me the reasons. and i dont want to hear any one say i am sure she did. but she did not. I cough her in a lie and confronted. for some reason she thought always tracking her down following her. i do know that she had 2 past relation ships that they did that to her. but the biggest thing here ws the lie from her she tells me she is one place and then i find out she is not but she lied to me about the entired thing even when i had the proff that my best man saw her someplace when she was to be some otherplace.