Take the hits and keep moving forward.

[stilllookingup]

Wow you guys have a serious blaming game going on. I can see from her last messages that she's pretty stubborn eh? Having this conversation oer texts will definitely not do anything good for your relationship.

Can you two maybe sit down together, lay out spendings and see where both of you can cut? I personally think it'd be far better than trying to convince her she spends more than you do. Idk the truth but it doesn't matter because no matter what you say to explain she is going to fight back.