Her, for making crappy choices ??? ( or at least choices you wouldn't make)
Or yourself, for allowing more of the same behavior that YOU admit, got you here ???
Yea CB....
This is hard schidt. There is nothing easy about it.
I can tell you that if YOU don't decide to change the dynamics, then nobody else will in your life.
And nobody will teach your Son how to change that dynamic.
You can be the crappy Dad, who is all fun and games, with the depth of a deflated vinyl kiddie swimming pool. Teach him that it is all about what HE wants in life, and that he doesn't have to show any true character in his life. That he can be shallow and self-centered, and screw people over with just his words, and act as poorly with no ramifications what-so-ever, and still bitch and moan because life "just isn't fair"....
OR
You can stop all of this BS that you are doing, and decide to be a real role model for him.
