Some small signs and settling down for a marathon

[Tonkarider]

Snodderly, Thanks for your explanations and answers because they really apply to my sitch. I am the LBS and my WAH is without a doubt in MLC from all I have read here. So, so difficult not to still reach out and try to ask how he is doing but I am waiting for him to contact me. It goes against every fiber in my being, but you along with other wise people on this forum keep saying the same things - that the MLCer needs space and reaching out will only make it worse for the LBS (me). Does the LBS just wait for the MLC to be the one to say how they are feeling & initiate contact? Or is there a point where the LBS can just throw out a text "How are you doing?". I think I need to get a body tattoo of all of this information because everything I am so driven to do is the opposite of what you and others suggest.