Question. What if W sees that I am doing better and GAL and 180's but attributes that to me having to step up when she is gone or that I am better when she isn't there. Nothing I can do about that, right?
JP, you have to let that thought process go brother. Relax a little okay... Your gonna be fine, everything will work the way it's gonna work out. You cannot play Chess with her mind, do this work for you and allow her the opportunity to work her issues out. I hope you really get that this work has to be for you and about you and you only. You are correct she will think what she wants to think so...
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.