Sandi, maybe I missed it on your thread but when you started, you already had a bit of turning point and recognized you need to stop communicating with OM. How did you find out about the boards? How did your H find out about OM? If its too personal I'm sorry and you don't have to answer...but I'm just looking for some understanding.

Thanks,
Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.