Lost and confused Part2

[Intact]

Look, excuse me for being blunt in my last post but if you have any hope of a future R you can't talk too her like that.

I'm not a vet and my sitch is a mess but if it's worth anything if I were you I'd hold back a little. re-read DR and bull back. Stop initiating contact - let her come too you on her own terms and when she does (and she will) treat her the way you'd like to be treated yourself. Regardless of how she treats you.

For ages my W would send me very blunt text messages when I responded I always ended with "have a nice day" you know what? It may mean nothing but recently her texts too me have ended with "have a nice day".

It's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do - I realise that because it has been for me. But you have to pull back and let her walk her path because whilst you're in this state she's not going to want to talk too you.