Mlcers like to know that we are were they left us pre-crisis. They are like two yr. olds who are learing to walk. They toddle along and when they start to fall, they reach out for mom or dad to make sure they are their to stabilize them and catch them before they fall.
It's typical mlc behavior They don't love you right now but they don't want anyone else to love and/or be w/you either. If you are going to continue down the yellow brick road, you will need to get use to the pulse checks...it happens quite a bit along this path. So, my advice, please stop trying to analyze every word and/or move she makes. Buckle up and be ready for a difficult and bumpy ride. That's why it is very important that you keep the focus on YOU and your children. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to what they do.
Have you been doing your homework? Continue to read the threads and do some research in the mlc archives...there is a lot of valuable info there as well as in the current forum.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
