Weird scenario

[Jeack]

I couldn't agree with you more. I think I was emotionally abusive cause I felt like I was the only trying in the relationship and I always had to walk on eggshells cause I know if I told her things that were bothering me she would leave and run

So yes I do need to work on these things. I need to let her go and if she wants to make bad decisions in her life. That's her prerogative.

But it's also painful for someone you still care about to sit watch them turn into a train wreck over a loser guy. Even her family is getting annoyed.

I feel like she was living a double life and never stayed out of contact with OM for our entire relationship. And Anger is a natural reaction during the grieving process, maybe I'm wrong.