Wow, thanks guys, so she was the one who told me to pick son for dinner on his BD, emailed to confirm at around 12 pm , she turns 360 and says what dinner. Explained her what she said 1 wk ago, didnot get upset. Did not bother to cling or ask , oh whats up is he coming . She texts at 6 pm saying he is hungry and she is feeding. I said ok, no problem , I wished him happy bd this morning in daycare. She was again erratic in email and says I can't stoop to your level , Iam a good person and at least take him for ice cream. I said be there in 10 min , went well dressed, took him was happy. When I left him back she starts to open up had a nice talk, says she was emotionally disengaged with me 2 yrs before the S and was not able to recover. conversation went well , I was jolly and happy to spend time with son and her. Then she brings up controversial things who started the d paper work. U hired a lawyer and sent me paper, i hired and was holding on to serve her hoping she would atleast talk to me. Again blame game. In reality i served only after she sent me papers from her lawyer. Brings up lot of stuff , I said please write it in an email and we can discuss as we go through this. I said just me honest and upfront. Put all the chips on table.
My mom called and picked the call, before this conversation she told me no one was calling me talking to me, ur parents ur sister no one cares to talk to me , I just said she called to wish her grand son happy bd, if you want she can talk to u, just say hello. She refuses to saya hi . It was so obvious and she knew she was the one who has some thing inher heart and she refuses to accept and talk to . I didn't bother her or any thing, just walked out , she again claims this is what I call you being disrespectful, you choose to talk to your mom while we are having a conversation. And I was like wo, in my mind i was, so you want me to just ignore the world. I could but it was a private number and I can allow interruptions. I am not going to be so inflexible. I just walked away , she texts again,I don't need to explain any thing to any one,god know what the truth is and I will happy live knowing I am a good person and truth full person. I just did not return her text just want her to sink the reality and the events.
M - 39W- 38 M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths Son - 2 yr day care S - 9/12 Divorced- 10/10/13 Visits with son other week Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered