I missed any mention of your H moving out on your thread. SO it kind of blew me away last night when I read that. I was posting to you when my H came, so I didn't finish.
I think that your H is really struggling right now. He is, as you said, suffering from the reverse effects of the bomb. Who knows what is happening with the OW.
Maybe the accountant had her make copies of the tax returns for your H's files. Maybe she is giving your H heck at that end of his life.
Whatever the case, your H is really struggling.
Sit back and let him feel the pain. You can be his friend and support him lovingly from a distance. He needs to own up to what he is doing. Do you think it is finally catching up to his brain that he can't have it both ways? Me thinks so!
In the meantime, get out and buy some new flowers for your garden, go golfing, take your DD to the park. But enjoy! Take care of you.
You deserve the best. You deserve happiness. And the good Lord will provide for you and your DD - no matter what happens. My prayers are with you two!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
