How are you and the children doing? How is the little one?
I am glad to see some improvements in his situation. Hopefully he will continue to improve and come to realize that happiness comes from within and yes, he has a wonderful wife, three beautiful children and a good home. He needs to realize that home is where the heart is.
Keep your expectations at zero at all times and continue as you have been. You have been an inspiration to many here on the forum.
Stay the course, stay positive and continue to dig deeper for patience.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.