I am so happy to read that the party was a huge success! I hope you got some amazing photos.

I'm sorry your h is a Disney dad right now and not participating in more of your daughter's lives, but it appears that he's just a shell of the man he once was.

Your h's behavior sounds a lot like the behavior that my xh exhibited at his grandfather's birthday party. Body there, but the person inside was out to lunch. I'm sorry he's still acting out.

However, you sound so much better and I'm glad you are continuing to move forward. It takes a long time to get to a better place, but once you are there, things begin to look brighter and more positive for you.

Have a great day!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.