first of all, i can't even imagine how difficult it must be right now dealing with all the financial issues. so (((((( ))))) for that.
for what i can understand, you are now D'ed but there is still no CS agreement. am i getting that right? what i wonder is.. as i red KG's post etc.. i'm wondering.. have you thought about what you are planning on doing if the best case scenario doesn't work out? i don't mean to be bringing up all the negatives but, just judging from his history, the court may enforce CS but what is the likely of all the other money he has taken from the family savings?
i don't know.. i'm not sure if being accomodating.. being friendly, warm, empathetic.. i don't know how much they apply here. it's nice he took you out for lunch but i keep thinking, he's basically taking you out for lunch with your money (essentially money that should be going to CS, school fees etc).
maybe i'm totally out of line here.. i'm just worried about you since your ex-H doesn't seem to have clear boundaries.
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11