My WAW - coming to terms with it all!

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Ok so after i offered to help my W out this afternoon with picking my son up...(who is just around the corner from me) i got no response from my W.

I think she is determined to prove to me that she doesnt need any help from me whatsoever which I get.

Have I been too nice??...did I backslide. This stuff involves picking up our kids which we need to work as a team on, but she is determined to do it all on her own...but still complain to me if it gets too hard.

I'd be lying if I said that her attitude was not frustrating me. Why is she being so stubborn about this stuff. Any insights??

What do I do from here....just continue LRT and being supportive, even if she doesnt want any of my support?

I dont plan to react to it at all, but it's like she wants me to be the bad guy to help her justify her decisions.

Man...just when I think i have been detaching well and really GAL i come up against this.

Time to take a break, regather myself again and get back on with my goals.