Newman, Get it out here. Vent away. But like JP said do not contact OM or talk to your W right now. Your emotions are controlling you right now. I'm there way too often so I know how you feel. OM normally lives 500 miles away, but for the past week he has only been 60 miles away and I've wanted so bad to go up there and have a word with him. But then I remember that he is not the problem in my sitch just a symptom
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it