THanks for the response. I think i will just leave all gifts as if they have come from the boys. She did the same for my birthday and just got me toiletries and other stuff.
A simple text to say happy birthday from me will be the only recognition i make.
Me - 37 W - 37 M -5 T - 15
S=5 S=3
Seperated - 12/12 BD - 20/03/13 Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.