Still treading water #4

[Grizz]

So W calls me today and asks me to find out what I am going to do about the house. (Refinance, get cash out to pay her part of equity, make her payments to cover equity, etc). She wants her name off of the deed and wants her money.

This led into some serious discussions about D and how we were going to split everything. Later she texts me that she is not trying to be difficult. I replied that I know she is not, this all just hurts. She says the longer we drag it out the more it will hurt and that we just need to do it.

W comes home tonight and is more friendly than she has been in a long time. That's great but I don't really feel like being her friend right now. This seems like the final step. If I refinance the house I see no chance in R.

It will be interesting on Saturday. Both girls are going to a sleep over leaving W and I home alone. That hasn't happened since BD. I bet she finds something to do.

Rough night. Not sure i even want to try anymore.