Almost two years and still stuck in limbo

[newman7977]

Sandi, ughhhhh I couldn't take it...my kids were alone in the house while she talks to OM on the streets. That's where I draw the line. I confronted her right now. First she denied denied denied but then I called her lies and she admitted it.

We had a long talk. She's crying for help I feel like directing her to he boards here and maybe sandi you can talk to her. I told her to hold off talking to him until we're D! When were done she can have all the time with him but she can't have both. She plead why can't we just live separately...I said no. I don't want to get hurt. We need to separate and file for D. I'm done. No more of this I'm ready to move on with my life without her.

She said she doesn't wanna lose her family. She said how can we make it work? I said I don't know but first step is she needs to stop getting her needs from OM. I understand that it won't happen overnight. She promise she won't talk to him he's only friend I said no he's your cheating friend! I told her don't do it for me do it for yourself! Respect yourself OM is married and I told her that when I talked to OM, he didnt even fight for her.

I told her our M don't stand a chance against the fantasy. I'm rambling I'm still steaming!

She said she filled out the d forms but couldn't do it. She promise she won't talk to him anymore. I told her I don't trust her...he trust need to rebuild...and I told her I'm not even sure if I wanna stay with her.

Sorry if I'm all over the place but need to vent.