Just thought I would chime in, my STBX also loves to blame me for how long the divorce is taking when he takes months to return anything.

AJM your post really nailed the sickness they have and how they need to keep readjusting the truth in order to justify their heinous behavior.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13