Taking a step back-a fresh start

[cbtdad]

It was something that was told to me by another guy. So I guess it his quote. Lol
This guy has been great. If you read through some of my old posts you will see a few things from him. I call him "the wise man"
Hahaha
He and his wife help run the Retouvaille programs here were i live.
They are also one of the presenting couples.
His W also had an OM after they were separated much like my sitch.
Like he said, he pushed her into his arms.
He reminds me all the time that the OM is just symptom of the problem.
OM is not the problem.
One of he things i also try to remember is he tells me constantly.
"You are becoming the best man and father you can be for you, a by product of that may be a chance to save your marriage, but it isn't the objective"