Sorry cbtdad, was it your quote? Whoever owns the quote, it is very powerful and worth thinking about. I suppose for my sitch, my original plan all along has always been I will continue to support her, even through the crap that comes with S and D. She is my wife/lover/friend and will always be.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.