Bustingout, I really love that comment you wrote, it puts so much of the separation into perspective. We are not here because of a couple of weeks worth of issues, but long term worth of issues. "It would be selfish for you to change and then just leave her behind without giving her a chance to change after she put up with the worst of you for 2 years"
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
