" i just want her to realize what her role is and if she really owes up to her actions and choices. not sure if i should include it. i want to accept only if she honesty accepts her part
its GOT to be FAIR"
No it doesn't NEED to be fair. That's up to her. She doesn't need to own up to anything that she did. That's HER choice. You cannot control her actions any more than she can control you.
If she CHOOSES to belittle you, there's nothing you can do. Likewise, if you CHOOSE to belittle her, there's nothing she can do about that. You've chosen to be the bigger person in this case.
She will continue to talk down to you until you actually start changing AND tell her to back off. You already apologized to her for the past and are changing for the better. The next time she goes off on you again, just tell her that you understand how things were in the past and you are changing those bad behaviors to be a better man. If she continues to talk down to you, then shrug your shoulders and tell her that you're doing it for you and not for her. Then just walk off as if she didn't matter.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
