Keep on, keeping on!

[azguy]

Quick db advice pls?


I lightly mentioned the college thing last weekend and it was, as I suspected, whatever d18 wants. He said, she knows how much we've agreed to pay. Her decision after that.

You sound disappointed with how this went? These seem to me to be opportunities where you can express your interest in his input, not so much about whether he responds or not. Do you feel you conveyed to him your interest in his input?

Since he'a left, H's been very responsible money wise (to my knowledge).

Did you tell him this? Sounds like good positive input to him.

So how do I handle this? Act as if we have a future and hope for the best? Try to advise against making any financial decisions and say no?

I appreciate him bringing up the idea and would like to be part of the decision making process. How to do it on db terms?

I would act "as if". It builds some trust. But only if you could really be okay with the decision. Be honest about this.