First Post--2d troubled marriage

[2X Divorcee?]

Not sure if this is anything but I called my STBXW yesterday (about 9:30 pm her time). When she answered I said how's it going?" and she let me know they were about to go to bed due to a field trip/early start in the morning. I said, "well, I'll let you go, we can chat later" and she say "no, no, that's ok". We chatted for a few minutes. Everything was positive. At least, she's doesn't seem to want to end the conversation so quickly. A few days ago she never answered so I had to talk myself out of assuming she screened the call (stop mindreading!).



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I really have gotten off my self blame for being selfish. Maybe I am at times but I have so much more examples of giving and serving. I actually believe my life of relationships have been with women who become more and more selfish with growing expectations as I ramp up my efforts to please them. I hope this book will illuminate that and help me understand and stop the cycle.

GAL---got a super invite to go deep sea fishing Sunday. Privately owned boats are a little scarce over here so when you get an offer, that's a big deal. Can't wait.