Sizing up the task ahead!

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Well, as you probably know, the ban on Jedi marrying was due to changes in the structure of the Jedi Council and Jedi Order. Before 4,000 BBY, the Jedi Order was made up of loosely affiliated local groups. After the Great Sith War, they became a unified organization under the Jedi High Council, which began to reinterpret the Jedi Code. So... Wait, sorry. Wrong board

But seriously, I don't see the harm in being a bit lighthearted with your W. As long as you don't have any expectations of her reciprocating or even responding. We do what works, give it some time, see how they respond and adjust accordingly. Being more lighthearted might be a signal to your W that you are feeling positive no matter what happens in your sitch. But, as with all things, don't overdo it and don't get overly enthusiastic if she responds well.

Hey that reminds me. Star wars day is Saturday. May the 4th be with you!

It most certainly is and May the 4th be with you too. And there is never a wrong board to talk about Star Wars - it's relevant to everything in life!

I am going to take opportunities on this when they present themselves, and no longer hold back when I feel like making a joke at W's expense (not in an evil way, just light-hearted fun. I will only do this with just the 2 of us, not in front of others. I think she will enjoy it as its her style of humour - I think she has been trying to carry this on but maybe I have taken some of it the wrong way.

FY - I see you are able to post in 'real time' now. Thanks for your comment too, I will certainly test the water!