Recently Separated and Need Help

[separated313]

So it has been confirmed that my H is having an EA. He admitted to me that they both want it to go further, but the OW currently has a boyfriend. My H does not want to be her dirty little secret. Here's the kicker, she lives over 4 hours away from us. I'm hurt and a little sad, but not really surprised. She has tried to cause problems for us before.

This is a true test for me to see if I can do a 180. I have not yelled or gotten angry with my H. I have just allowed him to tell me how he feels without showing too much emotion. However, when I'm behind closed doors, I can't stop crying.