Sizing up the task ahead!

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Take a deep breath and try to remain calm. What your wife is doing is sorting things out now in her life. People in mlc do not wait until the ink is dry on the divorce decree to do so. People in mlc have been thinking about ao new life long before the bomb drop, sometimes 1-3 years prior to announcing that they are unhappy.

She's on a fact finding mission...whether she acts upon what she learns will be another matter. Until that time, continue as you have been.

Keep the focus on you!

Thanks. I will do my best to carry on as I was. I think I am struggling with my thoughts at the moment, almost having a second realisation that this is happening . I guess before I convinced myself I could turn this around and time was on my side. Now I am doubting this, and of course this is why i need to look after me. It's the letting go that troubles me most, I just 100% believe W will have an easier life if I do this - like giving a spoilt child exactly what they want.