Actually, I were in that situation, I would have told the OW that I was concerned about my H's health. Especially the herpes scare that he had a couple of months ago.

Then see what she would've said after that!

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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