I just want you to know, though, because I always try to keep it real, that IF it comes to him wanting a S, no matter how prepared you think you are, it is going to be tough to hear.
But, good for you for knowing what you are going to do if that ever happens. Good to have a plan. Wish I had at the time.
T, I know this is so not what you ever wanted to have happen, but I gotta tell you, you have thrived and changed and grown so much.