Then as you might guess, BOOM, the bomb dropped, and she was ALL DONE!
This happened a month after D? That's different, usually they're cold before D, then once D happens they warm up. Crimson and his XW are just now starting to piece, it didn't happen until after their D.
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Anyway….here are my thoughts and questions? Since I am divorced, and she has classically walked away (we have NO contact, other that the few times I have tried/asked to see the kids – and was denied)….does that/this situation play out differently in time….Do WAW ever check back, or are they gone for good?
Well, like you said, every sitch is different. All I can do is relay two stories- my step-dad had a WAW (before my mom), after she left and divorced him she came back and wanted to reconcile TWO YEARS later. He had long since moved on and told her to take a hike, but I'm offering this to show that WAW's can still change their mind even if years have passed. The other story I've related here before, it's a buddy of mine, his W was a WAW and they barely spoke for a year after S. Then they started talking again, then became friends, then started going out and then ML. Now they have a pretty active sex life although they're not living together, and it's been 2 years since they S'd. They never did get D'd, but again it shows things can change even if it's years later.
