Is this MLC or WAS? Don't know what to do...

[BrightFuture]

Kaffe Diem, thanks for stopping by. I value your advice.

I’ve noticed I made a mistake in my previous post. Coach’s suggestion was to NOT volunteer any help with D process.

I’ve been doing everything that my DB coach suggested. I’m friendly, I smile when I see H, no R talk, I don’t stay on the phone for too long when he calls (and it is very rare.) The problem is that we don’t have much contact. And now, when he leaves for work, I will probably not see him for a few months, unless he has some business here. We might still have some contact for our joint business, since it is not separated yet. And, I assume we will be in contact for D process as well.

My DB coach suggested posting my GAL activities on Facebook. The problem is I don’t have Facebook, neither does my H. Our friends in that town where he’s been leaving now have Facebook, and could possibly give some updates to H about me, but I don’t know anybody in another state where he is going to work. So, I don’t see the point of doing it. I’ve been in communication with our friends all this time anyway, and I’m sure they gave him little snippets here and there on what was going on in my life. So far, it seems to not make any difference.

I’m planning to have another phone session, probably next week. I need to prepare myself mentally for the D talk.