It would be selfish for you to change and then just leave her behind without giving her a chance to change after she put up with the worst of you for 2 years

This^^^ is a really good reminder cbtdad

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home