Snodderly and BF thanks for the answers to these. I will read more on depression.

BF your comments are interesting re not being sure. I will sometimes doubt if it is MLC as Snodderly says. More when W does act rationally and i forget all the earlier stuff.

Re triggering an MLC in the LBS I am just not sure. I can't tell if I am slowly going or it is a result of my soul searching as part of the DB process. I am very confused thats for sure. I will post more about my feelings shortly.

Thanks again for the input