One other thing. Over the weekend I finished reading Fireproof. I really liked it and found it inspirational for what I (many of us) are going through. A bit hokey in the end, but still a positive message. However, for my next book I decided to not do a relationship related book and instead am reading Down River, a mystery book my wife read and raved about. I realized that I am reading Fireproof, I am still reading Gottman's 7 principals, we are going through counseling, and I am on here a lot. In essence, I am totally immersed in this and that is translating through to being too immersed in it with her.
So, I ordered a different book style and that has been pretty fun reading something else.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"