The bb is in a down cycle, things are going nuts. You and H have had company, I don't care how much you like them and how well you know them that is an additional stress in the household.
It is like the car was the final straw for both of you, but I'm wondering if there aren't a lot of other factors at work here.
You were debating what to do about your d on file and I don't recall seeing what you did decide.
He is aware I'm sure that it is still on file.
He is stressing over job changes and how the heck to manage his feelings and conflict avoidance and get rid of ow.
Plus there is all the working on an R stress that everyone else here in piecing went through when they first started rebuilding their R.
I just think there are a lot of other factors at work and both of you sound like you just let being tired and irratible get the better of you this morning.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
