Funny thing is that's exactly what I was doing a year ago myself.
I was emotionally absent from my family for awhile, I know for me I was in my addiction, my mind was working to get my fix. I didn't even comprehend what I was doing, it wasn't even a thought in my head. It is a bad place to be, but I was there. Your W may be somewhere like that, lost in her head, not seeing what she is or isn't doing. Hang in there buddy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy