The WAS's perception of things is usually much different than our own. Believe it or not I bet in her mind she fully believes you changed the plans and she's probably blaming you for S missing her. Nothing at all you can do about that...
What you can do •Have no expectations regarding your W visiting or not visiting your S tonight.
•Try to figure out things you can do with S to keep him busy so he doesn't think about her. It's hard as hell and I've lived it so I know what you're going through.
You may not notice it but you'd be surprised how much he's feeding off your emotions no matter how hard you thinks you're hiding them. Guessing he can tell you're tense, ticked off and that's creating anxiety in him. Try to relax as much as possible and enjoy this time with your S.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
