My Story - Need Advice (Thread 2)

[Accuray]

Yes, Spartan reminds me that I forgot the celebrate the good -- rearranging your room was a genious move, it followed on nicely with giving her some of her things to take with her. The best thing about your room is that you didn't show it to her or tell her about it, she just discovered it. That's key because it doesn't feel like you did it to get her attention, you just did it because that's where you're headed -- perfect!

If you want to follow it up with another thing to do, go get yourself a "professional makeover", which is to say have someone help you with your look -- hair and wardrobe.

This is almost universally recommended for three reasons:

1) If you look better you will feel better, so it's for your own good.

2) Your W thinks she knows you like the back of her hand. When you do something unanticipated it leads her to question her assumptions and makes her wonder what else she doesn't know.

3) Your W will wonder what you're up to, and the mystery works to your advantage

It's not easy to make this happen, it's a pain in the ass, but if you commit to it it can help.

Acc