Hey Lonely, I agree with AS and if I were your W, I would think that you did all that good work, got me back and now you don't care anymore, because your behaviour did not remain constant.

If I think this, she is probably thinking more of the same, that you didn't really change at all. I know it is hard to maintain the changes, especially when we find ourselves in familiar situations with familiar people. We sometimes revert to what we did before. You will have to do the 180s without let up and make the changes stick.

I like the fact that you said you would go out with the baby and W. Is this a 180 for you? What would you have said previously? I think W will be testing your mettle for a while and is just afraid that you will revert back at any time.

Also, a new baby is hard for everyone ((( )))