Snodderly and UW ~ I have been sensing a shift in things for awhile now, and think she is definitely becoming more desperate. As the sinking ship of their R keeps going down, I think she will pull out all the stops to keep it afloat.
I am trying to prepare myself for the worse-case scenario, which is that H will want a S and leave. In my heart, I feel the time for this has passed, but you never know. If he wants to go that route, I will ask for a separation agreement. I am not going to fool around about this.
If he wants a life with OW, he can have one, I can't stop him. But it's certainly not going to be the fantasy life he imagined.
He loses me. And I'm not sure he understands the full implications of this.
rH ~ I had to laugh when I read your post! I'm not going to pretend I am above petty insults when it comes to OW. I feel like she made her adulterous bed, and she can freakin lie in it.
After I talked to OW, I thought about a line from a song you had posted awhile ago...
"You got to know when to hold them, know when to fold them"
That's exactly what I did with her sneaky a$$ yesterday!
And I had to laugh at the scenario you made of what H may be thinking when he looks at me. This morning, as he was leaving, he made a comment that he liked the color green on my shirt. And I assure you, it did not make me look huge
M-man ~ hi and thanks! make no mistake, this all still hurts. But, time has given me strength and the fortitude to get through. It is still baffling to me that my friend could betray me like this, and be so incredibly cruel and self absorbed.
I will do my best to never stoop down to her level. She is such a waste.
Caigy ~ patience is tough, no doubt! She is definitely becoming more paranoid and insecure as time goes on and the shininess of their R has worn off.
You're right, she is lowlier than a snake - and sneakier too!
Even though H is still involved with her, I believe he may be beginning to question some of his choices.
All I can do is keep being the best me. And if he's lucky, he may get to keep the best thing that happened to him
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
